Does my use of "He" to describe God bother you? Sorry...
Of course, to speak of God's sex is to speak nonsense. "When God engages in sexual reproduction with another member of God's species, does God play the male or the female role?" I do not think there are any more members of God's species!
I refuse to use "it", since in our language this strongly implies "inanimate" or "unliving". God is more alive and more animate than all the rest of the universe! Compared to God, we are the inanimate ones!
So I'll stick to the traditional "Him".